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Dr. Sue Johnson, (1947 to 2024) was the innovator of Emotionally Focused Therapy, EFT.

Therapist Dr. Sue Johnson (1947-2024) revolutionized relationship counseling

April 29, 2024

Remembering Dr. Sue Johnson If you’ve heard me describe the work I do or have been a student, you’ve heard me talk about therapist, Dr. Sue Johnson. I felt (continue to feel) an enormous loss with her passing, April 23rd. No individual was more important to the development of relationship therapy than her. Sue Johnson’s…

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Relationship Counseling in Reno offices of Individual & Relationship Counseling Associates. Therapy in Reno

Relationship Counseling in Reno: Repair, Connect, Strengthen

April 2, 2024

Selecting a therapist who aligns with your values and understands the nuances of your relationship is pivotal.

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Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW is a therapist and founder / director of therapy in Reno, NV practice: Emotional & Relationship Health Associates. Reno, NV Specialist in Couple counseling

Questions To Ask a Therapist Before You Start

February 21, 2024

Starting couple’s therapy is a significant step towards improving your relationship. However, finding the right therapist for you and your partner can be difficult. It requires an evaluation process, for which you need the right criteria. You want confidence that the therapist’s expertise aligns with your specific needs. A prospective therapist should be willing to…

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Drs. Sue Johnson and Jim Furrow discuss attachment and improving relationships, with Pam King

“The Science of Relationships: Healing, Emotion, & Connection with Drs. Sue Johnson & Jim Furrow”

February 19, 2024

“With & For“, a podcast hosted by Dr. Pam King. This is a wonderfully warm and informative program where Sue and Jim discuss the core importance of relationship, and how to improve relationships. The following topics are covered: • Living in a way this is, “fully alive.” • How to bring together the spectrum of…

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Couple coping effectively with OCD, walking outdoors with their son

“Side by Side: Navigating OCD Treatment with EFT Couple Counseling”

February 16, 2024

Last week I did a presentation on what I was very surprised to find is an under-recognized area of OCD treatment: the impact of attachment theory on relationships affected by OCD.  Thrive Wellness co-sponsored an OCD Symposium in Reno that provided the opportunity to discuss OCD from a relational perspective. This article shares (in broad…

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2025 Reno Couples Retreats- Agenda

December 24, 2023

Thank you for your interest in joining us! Specific dates for 2025 will be announced soon. Learn more about our couples retreat program here. When: Friday, 6:00 pm to 8:30 pmSaturday, 8:30 am to 5:00 pmSunday, 10:00 am to 5:00 pm (snacks and refreshments provided) Where: Individual & Relationship Counseling Associates 403 Flint St. Reno,…

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happy couple doing EFT relationship counseling in Reno

“Harmony in Holiday Traditions”: Crafting Our Unique Traditions

December 20, 2023

As the festive season approaches, couples often find themselves navigating the complexities of blending traditions, managing expectations, and seeking meaningful ways to celebrate together. As an experienced Emotionally Focused Therapist, I learn so much about what works through what clients have shared the profound impact that creating and nurturing unique holiday traditions for couples can…

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De-escalating Arguments in Love, cooling the flames of couple conflict

“Cooling the Flames: De-escalating Arguments in Love”

December 14, 2023

Strategies for Handling Arguments in Relationship Introduction As an experienced, certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT) couple therapist, I’ve spent years helping couples navigate the complex tides of their relationships. I’ve realized that one of the most common challenges couples face is handling relationship conflict, i.e. managing and de-escalating the arguments we all experience. In what…

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Wellness podcast host Heather Haslem photo for interview with Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW about attachment

Attachment and Wellness

November 29, 2023

Podcast Interview: “Cultivating Healthy Bonds: Insights from Attachment Theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy” Attachment and Wellness are Inseparable Feeling connected and important to others is essential for our overall well-being. Simply put, attachment and wellness are inseparable. Therapists use Attachment theory and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a primary application of this theory, to provide significant…

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EFT and stronger community

The Promise of Emotionally Focused Therapy for Stronger Communities

October 2, 2023

Building stronger communities is crucial, especially now as we face a widespread loneliness epidemic. The path to greater connectedness is clear. Based on attachment theory, EFT recognizes our inherent need for deep social bonds and strong emotional connections, fundamental to robust communities. By focusing on emotional dynamics, EFT helps forge secure, resilient relationships, aiding in…

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