Therapy for Depression and Anxiety in Reno

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Get Started with Counseling in Reno

We create a safe, comfortable and confidential atmosphere for our work together.  Learn more about our therapists here. Call us for a free consultation: (775) 235-2205.

Anxiety Overview

  • Anxiety is a natural and often adaptive response to stressful situations.
  • However, when anxiety becomes excessive, chronic, or interferes with daily functioning, it can be classified as an anxiety disorder. 
  • Primary symptoms of anxiety can be categorized into physical, emotional, and cognitive symptoms. Importantly, some of these can overlap with symptoms of medical conditions and should be addressed by a medical doctor.

Our team of therapists in Reno, trained in attachment-based approaches, understands the ins and outs of emotional connections and how they influence our feelings. In a relaxed and safe setting, we'll work together to unpack your anxiety, explore its roots, and help you find a way forward that brings relief.

Depression Overview

Depression, often referred to as major depressive disorder (MDD), is a mood disorder characterized by

  • persistent feelings of sadness
  • hopelessness
  • a lack of interest or pleasure in previously enjoyable activities
  • cognitive and physical symptoms that can impact their daily functioning

Located in Reno, our therapists trained in Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) understand that depression often stems from deeper emotional disconnects. With this in mind, we will work with you to explore and heal these foundational wounds. With a gentle and attuned approach, we'll help you explore your primary emotions in a way that fosters a stronger connection with yourself. Additionally, this process cultivates a more secure sense of being. Our offices are a place where you can learn to navigate your emotions with greater ease, leading to meaningful change and a lighter, more hopeful experience of life.

A note about over-reliance on Labels for Depression and Anxiety:

Therapists can unintentionally make anxiety and depression worse when they misdiagnose conditions or focus too much on labels. While accurate diagnosis is important for treatment, relying only on labels can be harmful. It leads therapists to treat the disorder, not the person struggling with it.

However, this rush to diagnose can have unintended consequences. Sometimes, therapists diagnose too quickly based only on obvious symptoms. This can lead to deeper issues or other conditions being overlooked, which also need treatment. The result is a treatment plan that may not help, and could even make the client's anxiety or depression worse.

At Emotional & Relationship Health, Counseling Associates, we take a non-pathologizing approach. What this means is our therapists always prioritize understanding the whole person. Our attachment-based therapy in Reno considers each client's unique story, experiences, strengths, and struggles. By focusing on the whole person, we create treatment plans that offer the most effective and compassionate care.

Therapy in Reno for Anxiety and Depression from an Attachment Perspective

Attachment theory, pioneered by John Bowlby and later refined by researchers like Dr. Sue Johnson, provides a powerful framework for understanding human relationships, emotions, and behaviors. Central to this theory is the idea that humans have an innate need to form close emotional bonds with others, and disruptions or insecurities in these bonds can give rise to psychological distress, including anxiety and depression.

1. Primary Attachments and Emotional Security:

From the moment we're born, we seek comfort, safety, and security from our caregivers. These early relationships lay the groundwork for our 'attachment style' – patterns of relating to others that can be secure or insecure (avoidant, anxious, or disorganized). Notably, a secure attachment style typically results from consistent and responsive caregiving, while insecure styles may develop due to inconsistent or unresponsive caregiving.

2. Anxiety and Attachment:

Anxiety can arise when there's a perceived threat to our close relationships or when we feel uncertain about a loved one's availability or responsiveness. An individual with an anxious attachment style may frequently fear abandonment or worry about their partner's commitment, leading to feelings of anxiety. Consequently, they might become overly clingy or needy in an attempt to seek reassurance. 

3. Depression and Attachment:

Feelings of loneliness, isolation, and worthlessness can emerge when our need for connection is unmet. If someone with an avoidant attachment style consistently suppresses their need for closeness to protect themselves from potential hurt, they may inadvertently also suppress joy and contentment, which can lead to depressive symptoms. Furthermore, chronic feelings of disconnection or not being valued can lead to pervasive sadness or hopelessness.

4. Healing through Attachment-Based Therapy for Depression and Anxiety in Reno:

Dr. Sue Johnson's Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is based on attachment theory and has been proven effective for couples and individuals. The therapy focuses on:

  • Recognizing and understanding attachment-related patterns and cycles.
  • Accessing and expressing primary emotions related to attachment needs and fears.
  • Creating new, positive experiences of connection to replace old, negative patterns.

5. Conclusion:

Understanding anxiety and depression from an attachment theory perspective underscores the importance of human connection in mental well-being. So, while life experiences and other factors contribute to our mental health, the quality of our relationships plays a central role. By addressing attachment wounds and fostering secure connections, we can pave the way for emotional healing and resilience.

Remember, while attachment theory provides a valuable lens through which we can view mental health, it's just one piece of the puzzle. Each individual is unique, and a holistic approach that takes into account all facets of a person's life and history is essential. 

Citations:

Slade, A., & Holmes, J. (2019). Attachment and psychotherapy. Current opinion in psychology25, 152–156. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.copsyc.2018.06.008

Nielsen, S. K. K., Lønfeldt, N., Wolitzky-Taylor, K. B., Hageman, I., Vangkilde, S., & Daniel, S. I. F. (2017). Adult attachment style and anxiety - The mediating role of emotion regulation. Journal of affective disorders218, 253–259.

https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jad.2017.04.047Simpson JA, Steven Rholes W. Adult Attachment, Stress, and Romantic Relationships. Curr Opin Psychol. 2017 Feb;13:19-24. doi: 10.1016/j.copsyc.2016.04.006. PMID: 27135049; PMCID: PMC4845754.

 

Highly qualified, non-judgmental therapists for depression and anxiety. Warm and responsive office staff. 

Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW is a therapist and founder / director of therapy in Reno, NV practice: Emotional & Relationship Health Associates. Reno, NV Specialist in Couple counseling

Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW

Director and Therapist

Counseling with Reno Therapist Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW

About me as a therapist:

For over 20 years, I have worked with couples and individuals, recognizing the critical importance of a secure, connected, and hopeful relationship. Consequently, I specialize in attachment-based, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for marriages, couples, families, and individuals in the Reno area and hold certification as an Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor. Furthermore, I apply EFT in my practice with couples, individuals, and families, valuing its effectiveness, research-based approach and solid theoretical foundation. Several years ago, I established Emotional and Relationship Health Counseling Associates in Reno, NV, and currently serve as its director.

Attachment theory’s empathy, curiosity, and non-judgmental stance align with my natural style. Although I bring expertise in therapy, you are the expert on your life and goals. Thus, I commit to approaching our work together with humility and curiosity.

About me as a person:

I really don’t remember a time in my life when I wasn’t intensely curious about people. We are all so complex, with so much happening beneath the surface. This complexity fascinates me, and I feel fortunate that my fascination has led me to a profession I’m passionate about. Moreover, it motivates me to stay current with changes in the field.

My wife Tammy and I live with our adopted dogs. We have three adult children. Born in San Francisco, I have lived in a few different places, but Reno has always been home base. For years, I’ve had “boots on the ground” involvement with many facets of the mental health care needs of our community. This has provided me a rounded perspective about the particular relationship counseling needs of people in our local community.

Learn more about therapy in Reno with Cornelius

You can inquire about counseling in Reno with Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW and our team of highly-trained EFT therapists here. Call us at 775-235-2205 and we’ll be happy to discuss how we can help. Sessions with Cornelius range from $185 to $210 for 55-min and $275 for 90-minutes. Two-day weekend intensive sessions are available (call for details).

Cornelius Sheehan LCSW, Clinical Director and expert attachment therapist. Therapy in Reno, NV. July 2024 photo.
Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW

Cornelius is invested in Reno and Nevada:

Since 1974, I have resided in Reno, deeply committed to this community. I attended Reno High School and UNR. I actively participate in various advisory roles for Reno and the State of Nevada. Additionally, I founded Relationship Health Counseling Associates to enhance services for clients in this area and provide highest quality professional development for therapist interns in Reno.

Cornelius specializes in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT for couples, individuals and families). He supervisors clinical interns and candidates for EFT Certification. He is the Founder / Director of rceft.org, the Reno/Tahoe Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy. You can learn more about EFT at rceft.org and iceeft.com. ICEEFT is the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Nevada License Number: 5605-C

Cornelius works with clients aged 18-years and older, and children in the context of family therapy.

Cornelius’s Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Anxiety
  • Depression

Expertise

  • Bisexual
  • Cancer
  • Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • Lesbian
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men’s Issues
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Self Esteem
  • Veterans

home photo of relationship counseling therapist in reno, nv, home photo of Amanda Stewart, LCSW. July, 2024

Amanda Stewart, LCSW

Clinical Lead and EFT Therapist

Relationship Therapist in Reno

Hello, I’m Amanda Stewart, a relationship therapist in Reno. I work with couples, individuals and families. I was born and raised in Florida. However, after moving out west following graduation from college, I fell in love with this area and have made Reno my home ever since. I have been licensed as a clinical social worker and practicing therapy since 2002. I am ICEEFT Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and supervisor for clinical social work interns. My undergraduate work was completed in 1995 at Randolph-Macon College in Ashland, Virginia.

I am passionate about my work with children and their families, couples, and individuals. Emotionally Focused Therapy, EFT, has been an ideal way to bring Attachment Theory to my work with all of these clients. EFT has also been a very natural fit for me as a person. It lends to compassion, openness, non-judgment, and meaningful change. It also fits our practice mission of providing a caring and effective therapy. Finally, I love having the EFT roadmap that lets me communicate clearly with my clients about where we are in the change process.

Here is a link to some of the most common questions about therapy with me.

Call 775-235-2205 to arrange a brief phone consult with me. Amanda’s session rate is $185 per 55-minutes.

Nevada License Number: 4260-C

Ages 10 years-old+

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Relationship Issues

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Child
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Parenting
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Helen Going, LCSW

Meet Helen, Relationship Therapist in Reno

Hi, I’m Helen Going, LCSW, therapist in Reno. I am a licensed clinical social worker with advanced training in Emotionally Focused Therapy. I received a Master of Social Work at UNR. I completed my clinical internship locally. Subsequently, I have worked with a wide variety of clients in a variety of settings in Northern Nevada. As a lifelong learner, I continually grow the skills I bring to my counseling practice. I have extensive lived-experience. So, I have a deep appreciation for the distress that emotional and relationship difficulties can cause. I am dedicated to helping.

Why I Do Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy

For me, there is nothing more wonderful than seeing a couple see each other in a brand-new way, with them each understanding the struggles of the other in a way that is manageable and creative. I love empowering people to connect joyfully and effectively with themselves and their loved ones.

Emotionally Focused Therapy, EFT, has been an ideal fit for me. I have had training in several different treatment modalities, but EFT is the model that has become the foundation of my work. It fits what drove me to this work. Additionally, it’s totally in line with my goal of providing a completely safe space for clients to experience themselves and their loved ones in new and different ways. EFT couple and individual therapy works. It is gentle. This way of working does not assign blame or pathology to partners but rather gets to the root of the disconnections within relationships. The attachment framework of EFT allows people move far beyond the set of “tips and tricks” that are not good therapy. Instead of saying the right things at the right time, etc., the work I do equips clients to identify and reframe the destructive patterns that underlie their relationship problems.

Why I Do Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy

As an EFT therapist in Reno, I work with individuals as well as couples. While EFT is renowned for its effectiveness in couples therapy, its principles of emotional awareness, expression, and connection are equally transformative for individuals navigating personal challenges.

I’m drawn to individual work because it allows me to delve into the unique experiences and emotional landscapes of each person. Whether someone is grappling with relationship issues, past traumas, anxiety, or depression, EFT provides a framework for understanding the root of these struggles and fostering healing.

In individual therapy, I help clients identify and express their emotions in a safe and supportive space. We explore the underlying needs and attachment patterns that may be contributing to their difficulties. By developing a deeper understanding of themselves and their emotional needs, individuals can begin to make more empowered choices in their relationships and life in general.

I’m passionate about empowering individuals to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships with themselves and others. Whether you’re currently in a relationship or not, individual EFT therapy can provide valuable tools for personal growth, emotional well-being, and creating lasting connections.

Here are answers to some of the most common questions people have about therapy with me.

Call 775-235-2205 and I’ll be happy to touch base with you to further discuss what’s happening for you and how I can be of help. The session rate for therapy with Helen is $165 per 55-minutes.

Nevada License: #10250-C

Therapist in Reno, NV: Specialities and Expertise

  • Relationship Issues
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Life Transitions
  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Grief
  • Infertility
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Mood Disorders
Hillary Harris, CPC-I, therapist in Reno, NV at Emotional & Relationship Health Counseling Associates. Christian counselor. July, 2024 photo

Hillary Harris

Meet Hillary Harris

Hi, I’m Hillary Harris, a Clinical Professional Counselor Intern, therapist in Reno. Whether you’re experiencing loneliness, misunderstanding, disconnection or unhealed wounds, I can help. I have specialized training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a gold-standard for relationship counseling. I also do attachment-based EFT for individuals (EFIT). Additionally, for those interested, I am also comfortable incorporating Christian faith-based principles to support the client’s personal values and belief.

Research consistently shows that a strong therapeutic relationship, also called the therapeutic alliance, is vital for successful treatment. My goal is to create a supportive and collaborative environment where we can build emotional and relationship resilience. Using my specialized training, I help clients identify and disrupt negative cycles to foster lasting change. I’m passionate about working with couples, first responders, military personnel, those experiencing relationship loss, and individuals with PTSD. Additionally, I am part of a highly-collaborative team and do regular case consultation with our Clinical Director, Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW and Clinical Lead, Amanda Stewart, LCSW.

My military experience gives me insight into the unique challenges of high-stress jobs with chronic exposure to intense content.

At Emotional and Relationship Health Counseling Associates, our team provides attentive and personalized support. If you’re searching for a therapist in Reno, call us. We can discuss our approach and see if we’re the right fit. We offer a free consultation.

My standard session fee is $120. Our team is here to help you navigate your challenges and support your healing and growth. Contact us today to schedule an appointment. This is your first step towards improving your emotional wellbeing and relationship health. I look forward to supporting you on the path of self-awareness, self-acceptance, joy, and meaning.

Ages 18-years+

Hillary Harris Specialties and Expertise

Hillary’s Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

Veterans

Addiction

Anxiety

Codependency

Depression

Divorce

Family Conflict

First Responders

Grief

Life Transitions

Marital and Premarital

Spirituality

Stress

July, 2024 relationship counseling reno home photo of Tammy Sheehan, client care coordinator for therapy in reno, nv. Administrative Lead for EFT marriage couple counseling reno, nv.

Tammy Sheehan-Franchini

Care Coordinator and Administrative Lead

Welcome to our practice specializing in EFT marriage therapy, family therapy, and individual counseling in Reno! We understand that taking the first step towards therapy can be daunting, which is why we’ve designed our intake process to be as seamless and welcoming as possible. From the moment you reach out to our office, whether by phone or email, our priority is to create a warm, supportive, and confidential environment. We believe that the therapeutic journey truly begins with that initial connection.

I, or a member of our team of caring, non-judgmental and experienced EFT therapists in Reno, NV, will be your first point of contact. We’ll take the time to listen to your needs and concerns, and conduct a brief, non-clinical assessment to ensure that our practice is the right fit for you. We understand that the decision to seek help is a significant one, and we want you to feel confident and comfortable in your choice of therapist.

Once we’ve established a good fit, we’ll guide you through the process of scheduling your first appointment and completing any necessary paperwork. We strive to make the administrative aspects of therapy as smooth as possible, allowing you to focus on the most important part: your therapeutic journey. We believe that our practice in attachment-based EFT marriage, individual, family and couple counseling in Reno offers a powerful path to healing and growth, and we are committed to making that path accessible and supportive for you.

Helping You Start with Therapy in Reno

We don’t want the process to be any more complex than it needs to be. Our practice is “paperless.” What this means is that you’ll complete all of the necessary documentation via our HIPPA compliant online portal. Here are the steps to starting: 1) my team will email each client an invitation to the online portal as soon as we have done a brief preliminary intake. You may also have arranged for a brief consultation with one of our therapists. 2) complete the online forms within 36-hours to hold your appointment. 3) attend your appointment. 4) use the online scheduling feature in the portal to select future appointments. Our team will walk you through anything you find difficult.

Call us at 775-235-2205 to learn more about EFT couple counseling, individual or family therapy, EFT marriage therapy in Reno, and our practice in general. We’ll help get you scheduled for a brief no-cost consultation with one of our therapists.

We provide marriage counseling, relationship therapy, family therapy, couples counseling, premarital counseling, singles and couples workshops, family counseling, teen counseling, parenting guidance, help with divorce, relationship advice, as well as help with dating, love and communication.