What We Help With | Marriage Difficulties
Many couples struggle with:
✔ Unresolved conflicts – Small hurts that build into resentment.
✔ Feeling stuck in negative patterns – The same arguments, over and over.
✔ Emotional disconnection – A growing sense of loneliness, even when together.
These challenges don’t mean a relationship is beyond repair. Understanding the deeper dynamics behind relationship struggles is the first step toward meaningful change.
This page explores:
🔹 Why marriage difficulties happen
🔹 The emotional impact of marital distress
🔹 How evidence-based approaches like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) help couples reconnect
Visit our Couples & Marriage Counseling in Reno, NV therapy services page.
When Marriage Feels Difficult – You’re Not Alone
Common Reasons Marriages Struggle
Every relationship has its ups and downs, but some struggles feel impossible to navigate alone. Couples often seek marriage counseling when they experience:
- Repeating the same arguments – Conflict feels like a loop with no resolution.
- Feeling unheard or misunderstood – One or both partners struggle to feel valued.
- Growing emotional distance – Conversations feel transactional rather than intimate.
- A lack of connection – Physical or emotional intimacy is fading.
- Struggles with trust – Past hurts or betrayals make it hard to move forward.
The Emotional Toll of Relationship Stress
Marital distress doesn’t just impact the relationship—it affects mental health, work performance, and even physical well-being. Many couples feel:
- Overwhelmed by constant tension at home.
- Unsure whether their marriage can be saved or if they should walk away.
- Emotionally exhausted from trying to fix things alone.
- Worried about how their relationship struggles affect their children or family.
How Unresolved Marital Conflict Can Impact Your Well-Being
Unaddressed marital problems can lead to increased stress, anxiety, depression, and even health problems. If fights escalate or partners withdraw completely, disconnection becomes harder to repair.
Seeking help early prevents further emotional and relational damage.
Can Marriage Counseling Help?
What Research Says About Marriage Therapy
Marriage counseling isn’t just about resolving arguments—it’s about creating a deeper, more secure connection. Studies show:
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) helps over 70% of couples move from distress to relationship satisfaction.
- Therapy lowers divorce rates and increases long-term happiness.
- Learning new ways to communicate and repair conflict can transform a struggling marriage into a thriving one.
When Is the Right Time to Seek Help?
Many couples wait too long before seeking help—often six years after problems begin. Signs you may need counseling include:
- You argue over the same issues repeatedly.
- One or both partners feel emotionally alone.
- You avoid tough conversations to “keep the peace.”
- Physical intimacy has drastically changed.
If you recognize any of these patterns, now is the time to take action.
How Therapy Creates a Path Forward
Marriage counseling provides:
- A safe, non-judgmental space to express concerns.
- Tools to break negative cycles and create healthier patterns.
- Support for rebuilding trust and connection.
- A framework for repairing past hurts and preventing future conflicts.
The goal is not just to fix problems but to build a marriage where both partners feel secure and valued.
Next Steps: Where to Find Support
How to Start Exploring Couples Counseling
If you’re considering marriage counseling in Reno NV, take the next step:
- Read more about our couples therapy services: Couples Counseling in Reno NV
- Schedule an initial consultation – Call 775-235-2205 to discuss how we can help.
What to Look for in a Marriage Counselor
Not all therapists are trained in evidence-based couples therapy. Look for a counselor who:
- Specializes in EFT or attachment-based approaches. Learn more about Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples here.
- Helps couples identify negative cycles rather than just “fixing communication.”
- Creates a safe space for both partners to feel heard and understood.
Read this brief article to learn about questions to ask a prospective marriage counselor.
Learn More About Our Approach to Relationship Counseling
We help couples understand their patterns, rebuild trust, and create lasting emotional security.
Inclusive, Accepting Marriage Counseling in Reno, NV for ALL Couples
At Individual & Relationship Counseling Associates, we proudly offer Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to all couples, including those from the LGBTQ+ community. EFT helps by focusing on strong emotional connections that everyone needs, regardless of background.
Our therapists are sensitive to the diverse experiences of each couple, ensuring that everyone feels respected and valued as they work toward a more connected and resilient relationship. Learn more about our affirming couple and marriage counseling here.
Research-Backed Insights on Marriage and Mental Health
- Impact of Marriage Difficulties on Mental Health:
- A study published in Nature Human Behaviour found that unmarried individuals are significantly more likely to experience depression compared to their married counterparts. This highlights the mental health benefits associated with stable marital relationships.
- Effectiveness of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT):
- An article in Psychology Today reports that 90% of couples undergoing EFT experience significant improvements in their relationships, with 70-75% moving from distress to recovery. This underscores EFT's efficacy in addressing marital difficulties.
- Insights from The Gottman Institute:
- Dr. John Gottman's research indicates that 69% of marital conflicts are perpetual problems, emphasizing the importance of managing rather than resolving certain conflicts. This perspective is crucial in understanding and addressing marriage difficulties.
We provide marriage counseling, relationship counseling, couples therapy, premarital counseling, singles and couples workshops. In-person and online therapy in Reno. Our offices are in Reno, NV