Posts by Cornelius Sheehan
Building Resilient Bonds: How EFT Strengthens Community Connections
Building stronger communities is crucial, especially now as we face a widespread loneliness epidemic. The path to greater connectedness is clear. Based on attachment theory, EFT recognizes our inherent need for deep social bonds and strong emotional connections, fundamental to robust communities. By focusing on emotional dynamics, EFT helps forge secure, resilient relationships, aiding in resolving conflicts and emotional pain. It enhances emotional control and thinking adaptability, enabling calmer responses to new experiences. At its core, attachment theory and EFT teach us that embracing each other, rather than avoiding or opposing, is key to overcoming distress.
On the macro level, the promise of Emotionally Focused Therapy can be understood from several angles:
- Cultural Impact: Firstly, recognizing the importance of emotional intelligence and secure attachment can shift cultural narratives. This, in turn, impacts entertainment, education, and policy, pushing societies towards valuing emotional health and strong bonds.
- Model for Healthy Communication: Additionally, EFT provides tools for validating feelings, empathetic listening, and open communication. When applied widely, these can foster understanding and minimize conflicts, benefiting both personal relationships and larger contexts like communities and workplaces.
- Strengthening Relationships: At its core, EFT believes that strong attachments promote well-being in individuals and relationships. By mending attachment wounds and nurturing closer bonds, EFT subsequently bolsters family and community stability.
- Reducing Divorce and Separation Rates: Furthermore, EFT’s effectiveness in addressing relationship issues suggests its broader use could decrease divorce and separation rates, ensuring stable homes for children.
- Mental Health Improvement: On another note, EFT can diminish symptoms of anxiety, depression, and related disorders. Broadly speaking, this means a healthier public, fewer healthcare expenses, and heightened work efficiency.
- Education and Prevention: By integrating EFT principles in education or health campaigns, there’s an opportunity to proactively fortify relationships, mitigate relationship strain, and amplify societal grasp of emotional health.
- Economic Impacts: On the economic front, enhanced mental health, declining divorce rates, and improved work relationships spur economic gains. Content and emotionally stable individuals are often more industrious, potentially elevating economic performance.
- Research and Development: Lastly, EFT’s success and strong research base could fuel further studies in psychotherapy and relationship dynamics, ushering in advanced therapies and strategies for people and couples.
Should we do Premarital Counseling?
Your relationship holds wonderful promise for a lifelong, responsive connection. Yet, frequent and seemingly trivial arguments may leave you feeling worried or uncertain. These challenges can cast a shadow over the bright hope you share as a couple. Remember, you are not alone. Premarital counseling can help. Our Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) in Reno, NV, offers a short-term investment in your lasting connection.
Why Choose Emotionally Focused Therapy?
EFT is grounded in attachment theory, which highlights our need for strong emotional bonds. When these connections feel threatened, couples often react with distress. Frequent conflicts over finances, jealousy, or intimacy often stem from a deeper sense of emotional disconnect. EFT helps couples uncover these patterns and work through them with understanding and compassion.
Addressing the Root of Relationship Struggles
EFT works by identifying and interrupting negative interaction cycles that block true connection. Couples often feel stuck when they sense their partner isn’t emotionally available or responsive to their needs. These moments can lead to feelings of anxiety, numbness, or disconnection. EFT helps couples establish new cycles of interaction, where both partners feel supported, seen, and valued.
Build a Stronger Future Together
Through EFT, couples create a renewed and secure emotional bond. This stable attachment enhances communication, fosters trust, and builds resilience in solving conflicts. With a strong foundation, couples are better equipped to navigate challenges together.
If you’re considering premarital counseling, we invite you to contact us today. Learn more about how Emotionally Focused Therapy can support your journey toward a lasting and fulfilling partnership.
Unveiling the Attachment Science view of Emotional and Sexual Intimacy: A Conversation with Dr. Sue Johnson on The Knowledge Project
Introduction
We highly recommend this special episode of ‘The Knowledge Project’ with Shane Parrish, a platform dedicated to unearthing profound insights and wisdom to enrich our lives. Shane conducts an exclusive interview with relationship expert Dr. Sue Johnson on building intimacy. Dr. Johnson is a renowned clinical psychologist and the primary creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). In this episode, Shane and Sue delve into the intricacies of creating, protecting, and nourishing fulfilling sexual and emotional relationships.
About Dr. Sue Johnson
A Trailblazer in Relationship Therapy
Relationship expert Dr. Sue Johnson, a distinguished figure in the world of psychology, has dedicated her career to exploring the realms of romantic relationships and attachment theory. Her pioneering work in developing Emotionally Focused Therapy has provided profound insights into the way couples interact and bond.
The Genesis of Emotionally Focused Therapy
EFT, founded by Dr. Johnson, stands out as a highly effective approach to couples therapy. It emphasizes emotional bonding and addresses patterns that can lead to distress in relationships. The therapy has a remarkable success rate and is backed by substantial research.
Core Principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy
Understanding Emotional Responsiveness
Dr. Johnson’s approach revolves around the idea that emotional responsiveness is key to a strong relationship. She explains how partners can become more attuned to each other’s emotional needs and responses.
The Role of Vulnerability
Vulnerability is a cornerstone of deep emotional connection. Dr. Johnson discusses how opening up and expressing one’s true feelings can strengthen the bond between partners.
Navigating Conflicts
Conflict is inevitable in any relationship. Dr. Johnson offers insights into managing disagreements constructively and turning them into opportunities for growth and understanding.
Building and Sustaining Relationships
The Foundation of Trust and Security
Trust and security are the bedrocks of any lasting relationship. This segment explores how couples can build and maintain these essential elements.
Communication: The Key to Connection
Effective communication is vital in relationships. Dr. Johnson provides practical advice on how couples can improve their communication skills to enhance understanding and intimacy.
The Importance of Intimacy
Intimacy, both emotional and sexual, is crucial for a fulfilling relationship. Relationship expert, Dr. Sue Johnson delves into the ways couples can deepen their intimacy and maintain it over time.
Practical Advice for Couples and Individuals
Strategies for Nurturing Relationships
Listeners will gain valuable strategies for nurturing their relationships, including exercises and practices that can be incorporated into daily life.
Tips for Singles
Dr. Johnson also offers advice for singles on preparing for a healthy, fulfilling relationship in the future.
Overcoming Relationship Challenges
The episode covers common challenges in relationships and how to overcome them, drawing from Dr. Johnson’s extensive experience in therapy.
Conclusion
In this enlightening conversation with Dr. Sue Johnson, ‘The Knowledge Project’ brings forward essential insights into the art of building and sustaining fulfilling relationships. Whether you are in a relationship or single, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom on love, connection, and emotional health.
We practice Emotionally Focused Therapy as developed by Dr. Sue Johnson. Reach out for a free consultation to talk about building deeper, more meaningful relationships in your life.
Meet Tammy Sheehan, Our Care Coordinator
Care Coordinator, Tammy Sheehan
Welcome to Our Therapy Practice in Reno
Welcome to our practice specializing in EFT couple therapy, marriage counseling, family therapy, and individual counseling in Reno! Taking the first step toward therapy can feel daunting, but we’re here to make the process seamless and welcoming. From the moment you contact us by phone or email, our priority is to create a warm, supportive, and confidential environment. Your therapeutic journey begins with that initial connection.
Your First Contact with Our Team
I, or a member of our team, will be your first point of contact. Our caring, non-judgmental, and experienced EFT therapists in Reno will take the time to listen to your needs and concerns. We’ll conduct a brief, non-clinical assessment to ensure our practice is the right fit for you. We understand that seeking help is a significant decision, and we want you to feel confident and comfortable in your choice of therapist.
How We Make the Process Easy
Once we confirm a good fit, we’ll guide you through scheduling your first appointment and completing any required paperwork. Our practice is fully paperless, meaning all necessary documentation is completed through our secure, HIPAA-compliant online portal. Here’s how to get started:
- After the initial intake, we email each client an invitation to the portal. You may also arrange a brief consultation with one of our therapists.
- Complete the online forms within 36 hours to hold your appointment.
- Attend your first appointment.
- Use the portal’s online scheduling feature for future appointments.
If anything feels difficult, our team is here to guide you every step of the way.
Attachment-Based Therapy in Reno
Individual & Relationship Counseling Associates specializes in attachment-based EFT marriage, individual, family, and couple counseling. We believe this approach offers a powerful path to healing and growth. Whether you’re seeking to improve your relationships, address family dynamics, or explore personal challenges, our commitment is to make this journey accessible and supportive for you.
Call us at 775-235-2205 to learn more about EFT couple counseling, individual or family therapy, or EFT marriage therapy in Reno. We’ll help you schedule a no-cost consultation with one of our therapists.
Meet Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW- Reno Therapists
Counseling with Reno Therapist Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW
About me as a therapist:
For more than 20 years, I have worked with couples and individuals. I understand how important it is to have a secure, connected, and hopeful relationship. I specialize in attachment-based, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for individuals, marriages, couples, and families in Reno. I am certified as an Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor. I use primarily EFT in my work with couples, individuals, and families. The things I appreciate most about EFT are its effectiveness, research-based approach, and strong theoretical foundation. But EFT is also a client-centered model. A client-centered model of therapy means that the therapist prioritizes the client’s perspective, emotions, and autonomy in the therapeutic process.
A few years ago, I started Individual & Relationship Counseling Associates in Reno, NV. A small, collaborative therapy group dedicated to excellence in attachment-focused therapy.
I have had the privilege of helping hundreds of couples and families repair ruptures and connect again. Along the way, helping at least as many individual clients become more self-aware and accepting. I’ve supported these clients in successfully dealing with depression, anxiety, and relationship problems.
Attachment theory’s empathy, curiosity, and non-judgmental stance align with my natural style. Although I bring expertise in therapy, I see you as the expert on your life and goals. Thus, I commit to approaching our work together with humility and curiosity.
One of my proudest professional achievements is starting a counseling program for inmates at the Washoe County Sheriff’s Office in 2004. We developed a novel and highly successful program to help reduce recidivism, especially for “failure to comply” violations. The program was funded by inmate purchases. I actively participated in these programs until 2011, when I dedicated myself full-time to private practice.
Another accomplishment that has brought me a lot of joy has been mentoring students and interns, guiding them to find their unique paths as professionals in the field of therapy. Additionally rewarding is the work I do helping train and supervise therapists wanting to learn EFT in Reno.
In addition to my work with individuals and couples in therapy, I also co-facilitate Hold Me Tight® couples retreats here in Reno. These retreats offer couples a chance to step away from daily life and focus fully on their relationship. Guided by the principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy, the retreats help partners understand the patterns that keep them stuck, learn new ways to communicate, and rediscover a sense of safety and closeness together. Over the years, it’s been incredibly rewarding to witness how these weekends can transform a couple’s connection and inspire hope for lasting change.
About me as a person:
I always remember being profoundly curious about people and relationships. We are all so complex, with so much happening beneath the surface.
I find this complexity fascinating. I feel lucky that my interest has guided me to a profession I love. Moreover, it motivates me to stay current with changes in the field.
My wife Tammy and I live with our three rescue dogs. We have three adult children. Born in San Francisco, I have lived briefly in a few different places, but Reno has always remained home base.
Learn more about therapy in Reno with Cornelius
You can inquire about counseling with Reno therapist Cornelius Sheehan, LCSW and our team of highly-trained EFT therapists here. Call us at 775-235-2205 and we’ll be happy to discuss how we can help. Sessions with Cornelius range from $185 to $210 for 55-min meetings, and $260 for 90-minutes. Insurances accepted include Hometown Health Plan. Two-day weekend intensive sessions are available (call for details).
Cornelius is invested in Reno and Nevada:
Since 1974, I have resided in Reno, deeply committed to this community. I attended Reno High School and UNR. I actively participate in various advisory roles for Reno and the State of Nevada.
Additionally, I founded Relationship Health Counseling Associates to enhance services for clients in this area and provide highest quality professional development for therapist interns in Reno.
Cornelius specializes in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT for couples, individuals and families). He supervisors clinical interns and candidates for EFT Certification. He is the Founder / Director of rceft.org, the Reno/Tahoe Community for Emotionally Focused Therapy. You can learn more about EFT at rceft.org and iceeft.com. ICEEFT is the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Nevada License Number: 5605-C
Cornelius works with clients aged 18-years and older, and children in the context of family therapy.
Cornelius’s Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Anxiety
- Depression
Expertise
- Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Marital and Premarital
- Cancer
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Internet Addiction
- Lesbian
- Men’s Issues
- Mood Disorders
- Parenting
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Veterans
Counseling Help for Families with Teens
Understanding and Communicating with Teens
“If you are raising a teen child, you’re likely familiar with something like this: “I need to feel understood…I need you to hear me (BUT DON’T EXPECT ME TO TALK!)” This common challenge in parenting teens highlights the crucial need for effective communication strategies and, in some cases, professional family counseling for teens.
The “Hold Me Tight, Let Me Go” Program
Drs. Paul and Nancy Aikin have created a program called “Hold Me Tight, Let Me Go.” It helps families with teens. This program offers guided conversations. These assist parents and caregivers in understanding their kids better. It’s vital for family health. It helps teens to share more, improving family dynamics. Often, this is enough to boost family communication and understanding.
Integrating Counseling for Teens
Sometimes, counseling for teens is also needed. It complements the conversation techniques. Counseling aims to give teens a voice. It helps them handle emotions and thoughts positively. It’s useful for issues like anxiety, depression, or social challenges. These are common in adolescence.
Counseling often includes the entire family. It ensures teens are heard. Parents learn supportive techniques. This includes active listening and empathy. Families learn to share in a safe environment.
In conclusion, “Hold Me Tight, Let Me Go” starts vital family conversations. Adding counseling for teens can tackle deeper problems. This combination fosters open communication and expert guidance. It helps navigate teenage complexities. For struggling families, this approach can greatly strengthen relationships.
Paul and Nancy appeared on the “That Relationship Show” podcast recently. You can learn more about family workshops here, www.eftfamilies.com